In dating we often find ourselves in this grey area where we don’t know what to do anymore. Some examples:
Your date is not texting back after what you thought was a great night.
The colleague you asked to go watch a movie together tells you “Sorry, I can’t make it today, but let’s do it another time!” But she never says a word about it again.
An interesting guy who said he’d call you but never does.
The cute brunette that invited you to her party but didn’t even talk to you when you were there.
All of these examples show you ambiguous situations that – let’s be honest – suck. This is where “Yuck yes, or no” comes into play.
Why would you want to be with someone like that? Why would you want to be with someone who is obviously not excited to be with you? Why would you waste your time and sanity chasing after someone who clearly isn’t as into you as you are into them?
From now on, you should follow a simple rule: only pursue romantic endeavors in which everything seems to flow naturally.
Go for the lover who calls you in the middle of the night after your date because he couldn’t stop thinking about you, opposed to the guy who barely remembers who you are.
Go for the colleague who immediately buys those tickets for Avatar 2 instead of the one who leaves you hanging in the neverland between colleague and date.
Go for the cute bubu who invites you to her party, welcomes you with open arms, and introduces you to everyone there.
Life is short. Spend it with people who want to be with you. To everyone else, your answer is “NO”.