In dating we often find ourselves in this grey area where we
don’t know what to do anymore. Some examples:
Your date is not
texting back after what you thought was a great night.
The colleague you
asked to go watch a movie together tells you “Sorry, I can’t make it today, but
let’s do it another time!” But she never says a word about it again.
An interesting guy
who said he’d call you but never does.
The cute brunette
that invited you to her party but didn’t even talk to you when you were there.
All of these examples show you ambiguous situations that –
let’s be honest – suck. This is where “Yuck yes, or no” comes into play.
Why would you want to be with someone like that? Why would
you want to be with someone who is obviously not excited to be with you? Why
would you waste your time and sanity chasing after someone who clearly isn’t as
into you as you are into them?
From now on, you should follow a simple rule: only pursue
romantic endeavors in which everything seems to flow naturally.
Go for the lover
who calls you in the middle of the night after your date because he couldn’t
stop thinking about you, opposed to the guy who barely remembers who you are.
Go for the
colleague who immediately buys those tickets for Avatar 2 instead of the one
who leaves you hanging in the neverland between colleague and date.
Go for the cute bubu who invites you to her party, welcomes you with open arms, and
introduces you to everyone there.
Life is short. Spend it with people who want to be with you.
To everyone else, your answer is “NO”.
Good one
ReplyDeleteHow have you been Ri?
I have been great...bern off the grid ..i am back...hiw is it going
DeleteGuess who the cat dragged in :) Mrs Tweenie :D Thank you for sharing...
ReplyDelete"Life is short. Spend it with people who want to be with you"- This is officially one of the highest degrees of wisdom i have read all day. Thank you for being awesome in all the while Ritah.. You are such a Delight.. and it strikes me how we are somewhat similar in our own different ways. Best wishes moving forward Tweenie. xx Mamba Out!
Hmmmm nice
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