Thursday, May 23, 2013

RiriZ Musings Indeed

If I were a boy
Even just for a day
I’d roll outta bed in the morning
And throw on what I wanted then go
Drink beer with the guys
And chase after girls
I’d kick it with who I wanted
And I’d never get confronted for it.
Cause they’d stick up for me

If I were a boy
I think I could understand
How it feels to love a girl
I swear I’d be a better man.
I’d listen to her
Cause I know how it hurts
When you lose the one you wanted
Cause he’s taken you for granted
And everything you had got destroyed
But you’re just a boy
You don’t understand
Yeah you don’t understand
How it feels to love a girl someday
You wish you were a better man
You don’t listen to her
You don’t care how it hurts
Until you lose the one you wanted
Cause you’ve taken her for granted
And everything you have got destroyed
But you’re just a boy
But you’re just a boy
You don’t understand
Yeah you don’t understand
How it feels to love a girl someday
You wish you were a better man
You don’t listen to her
You don’t care how it hurts
Until you lose the one you wanted
Cause you’ve taken her for granted
And everything you have got destroyed
But you’re just a boy

I like this song... especially the remix that beyonce sang with Lee Car. Boys shouldn't be offended. Every song has its own story. Some say that the girl cheated... the girl died... others the boy loves the girl deeply. This one is telling the story of what a girl would think when they got cheated.

I really like the lyrics Lee Car sang on the remix version:
"But you're not a boy... so you won't understand"

People may wonder... but things might not be happening our way.

I'm grateful that I'm a girl... I'm grateful with the varied in Boys and Girls.

Look Pretty and Sweet

Beauty may be in the eye of the beholder.Are you trying to catch a someone’s eye ?Well, here are a few things that can help you out.
If you really want to know what makes a girl pretty and cute, here are a few tips to transform yourself into the prettiest girl in the room, no matter where you are!

#1 Inner beauty. Inner beauty may not change the way you look on the outside, but it’ll still make you appear a lot more attractive and desirable. You need to be a friendlier person who is kind, compassionate and warm hearted because that’s the kind of girl all guys want to date.Respect yourself for who you are, beyond beauty that’s only skin deep. If you don’t respect yourself as a person, no one else would respect you nor would they find you attractive. Your self-confidence about who you are as a person is a reflection of your inner beauty. The better you feel about who you are on the inside, the more attractive you’ll appear on the outside.

#2 Pamper yourself. If you want to look pretty, you need to take really good care of yourself. The girls who look like they’ve just stepped out of a magazine look that way because they take care of themselves!Take good care of your skin, your nails and teeth and ensure that they’re at their perfect best. Start by eating a balanced diet, and your good health will shine through your skin.

#3 Find your advantages. You could be a shy girl, a tomboy, a sexy girl or a high maintenance girl. It doesn’t matter who you are as long as you use your personality and project it to your advantage. Show off your personality and don’t try to hide who you want to be.Don’t dwell and despair over things you don’t like or don’t have. Guys like a girl who’s comfortable in her own body. And there’s nothing more attractive than a girl who actually loves herself for who she is.

#4 Your boobs are perfect already. Many girls worry too much about what kind of breasts guys like. But seriously, you already have perfect breasts that all guys like! Guys like all kinds of breasts, no matter what they say. But the best boobs are the ones on girls who feel confident about their own bodies.

#5 Be a flirty girl. A sweet, smiling girl who’s warm to talk to always seems a lot nicer than the girl who behaves like a snotty princess. Be flirty and approachable, at least around the guy you like. He may be too intimidated by you and may be scared to approach you. If a guy you like stares at you now and then, but doesn’t approach you, give him a few signs to approach you without appearing like you’re too easy to get

#6 Flaunt it! Take pretty pictures of yourself when you go out with friends, or to a new place. Dress up, look fabulous, have a blast and let the world know you’re having fun. Every girl envies a girl who’s having fun, and every guy wants to be with a girl who is fun!
You can put the pretty pictures up on facebook or another social network, but just make sure you don’t turn into an attention whore.

#7 Don’t put yourself down. Don’t demean or put yourself down in front of others, especially a guy you like. Don’t go telling him you think you look fat or that you have a bad nose. Guys like to tell themselves that pretty girls don’t poop! So why would you want to ruin your beauty for him by criticizing or undermining yourself?

#8 Feel sexy! Indulge in confidence enhancers. Wear perfumes that smell great on you, treat yourself to new beauty products, get a new haircut, and feel good about who you are. Guys will find you irresistible!

#9 Be happy. And let the world see you smile all the time. Find ways to keep yourself happy all the time. You’ll feel good and being stress free will make you look a lot prettier. Positive energy is irresistible and sexy, and everyone loves being around a happy person. Don’t be a bore, and mingle with people who are fun.When you feel shallow or negative, you’ll only attract other guys and girls who are negative and boring. Fell alive, enjoy the world and watch how your world would change in no time.

#10 Be yourself. Be true to yourself, and be the person you really want to be. Don’t become someone your friends want you to be. Change is good, but you should change only when you feel the need to change and become a better you.

#11 Get rid of boring clothes. Avoid wearing your old, boring clothes and use colors carefully to lift up your spirits. When you wear bright colors that you’re comfortable with, it’ll make you feel happier. And happy girls always look pretty, don’t they?

#12 A healthier lifestyle. Many young girls have the misconception that starving themselves will make them skinnier. But that’s a dangerous myth in the long term. You’ll only end up putting on more weight over time.Don’t sit in front of a mirror all day running a brush through your hair. Work out, run around the park and try to get fit. Trying to get unreasonably skinny is definitely unhealthy, but being fit will do wonders for you, your body, your complexion, your mind, your skin and everything else!

#13 Get rid of unwanted hair. If you don’t like having hair somewhere, be it under your arms, legs or anywhere else, get rid of it. It’ll help you feel more comfortable with your body. And even if you find yourself in a situation where you’re in close proximity with a guy, you’ll still feel confident enough to flaunt your body without feeling awkward about a body part.

#14 The kind of girl guys like hanging out with. Guys like a girl who’s fun to hang out with. They may admire a glam doll, but they’d just get sick of her if she gets bratty on them. Let your hair down now and then, and just have fun without holding yourself back. Don’t be too uptight, but don’t be too accommodating either or you’ll get walked all over.

#15 Your uniqueness is your sex appeal. You don’t need to fit in with the crowd just to please the world. Your differences and your uniqueness is your sex appeal, and that’s the one thing that’ll differentiate you from the rest of the girls. If you want to look pretty and catch a guy’s fancy, flaunt what makes you different without embarrassment and you’ll work your magic.

#16 Don’t cover yourself with layers of makeup. Natural looking makeup looks best on a girl, because it makes it seem like you look pretty even though you haven’t put on anything on your face. Use makeup to accentuate your features, not to overshadow them or turn yourself into a completely different person.

#17 Don’t feel unattractive. Looking pretty and feeling attractive is a state of mind. If you feel unattractive, it shows and guys can notice it. Be cheerful, and love yourself for who you are, and your oozing confidence will draw guys to you like moths to a warm flame

#18 Give the guy just enough attention. When you exchange sneaky glances with a guy you like, his mind subconsciously makes him feel more attracted to you. He finds you prettier, sexier and he would definitely want to impress you. Give him just enough attention though. If you give him too much of it, he’ll think he’s won you over already and lose interest in trying to woo you.If you’re still single, don’t let your beauty be judged by just one guy’s eyes. It’s not the end of the world if one guy chooses not to fall for your beauty or your charm. Be comfortable in your own skin, and fall in love with yourself first. The world will soon follow suit.As long as you love yourself and don’t feel insecure about who you are, your positivity and confidence will always mystify and awe guys. And there will always be guys who’d want to date you and get to know you better.

Understanding how to look pretty and sweet isn’t just about dabbing makeup or flirting outrageously. It’s a new way to approach life, where you fall in love with yourself and respect who you are. After all, only when you fall in love with yourself will you have the positivity and the aura to make others fall in love with you!

Tuesday, May 21, 2013

Thoughts In My Head to Relieave You

At 5.30am . I felt everything coalescing into a big cosmic ball inside me. I closed my eyes and the world started to roll. I felt like everything was connected, and I felt good. The world was spinning and the light that was reflected off all shiny surfaces seemed to me to be far too bright. I closed my eyes tighter,which only made me feel even more awesome.

During my delusional world, I had an epiphany. It had to do with falling in love and seeing the world. It's kinda freaky. You can live and enjoy life in Vegas in a mere dream.Dreams take to you to  the world you have dreamt and seen in the movies. I love my dreams.They expose me to what I want.

I think most people in marriages are living in some kind of lie. I think everyone is living in some kind of lie anyway, but most of the time it does not include being in cramped emotional quarters with someone else. The thought it just terrible. Relationships make me feel claustrophobic. I love them, and I love falling in love, but I think the claustrophobia wins out in the end, and I prefer to stay away from anything getting too serious especially if I have no interest. But really, you can't control this shit. You fall in love because  your partner is charming, nice, generous ,great escapades and before you know it, you're seeing each other everyday so you might was well move in together. I have never done this thing ,but so many times ,I see the sister girls and brother boys falling prey. I am not a star , I am just riding with J.

It's bleak really. The odds are stacked against you. About 50% of marriages in the developed world fall apart and end in divorce. Out of the remaining 50%, how many are actually functional?

You're probably thinking, what kind of lame-ace epiphany is that? I already knew all that, it's not a novel revelation. But you know, when you're in an alternate state of mind, you have this feeling like you really get it. I didn't just know that all this tragedy was the truth, I understood it was the truth. That the current system in place is nerd but people still believe in it.

But I'd also like to believe it will change. That people will start seeing things differently and stop lying to themselves and everyone else around them. That they would liquidate their partners so there will be more to go around because as we know, all the best men are taken, except the ones that aren't taken and are about to be taken, so they might as well be.

Just one of those mornings where you lay out your thoughts and feel good in your head. It is a beautiful Day. It reminds of me of one of my favorite jams Beautiful day by U2.


Monday, May 20, 2013

Catching Up

25, dear lord, that figure looks awfully large. I still feel like I'm 20. I don't think like I'm 20 though. If I were to go back and give my 20-something self advice it would be this:
1. It doesn't matter what you want to do in the future, or what you will do. Go learn a proper, technical skill and do something to prove you've learned it. It can be anything. Writing, programming, drawing, carpentry, being proficient in multiple languages; anything that you like doing, that's quantifiable, and that will give you a sense of purpose while you're partying and wasting time and money getting a useless university degree. Most university degrees are useless to most people because if you like what you're studying, it'll probably be useless and if it's useful, you'll probably not like it.

2. Self-awareness and discipline are very important for success. Discipline to stick to the road you've decided to go down on, and self-awareness to know when to change course.

3. Live with interesting people that share your interest and are not lazy bums. You'll be inspired all the time, and they will motivate you to succeed.

4. Do some activity as a hobby regularly. read a book,go for a salsa class,catch a swim, cook... it'll make you feel good and it'll teach you something.

5) Don't party when you have to work/study. Unless you're absolutely certain it's going to be epic. Like with people in your field of interest all having a big love in. That way you're also networking.

 ... And yeah, the only thing I regret from that period of my life is the wasted time spent doing shit I didn't want to do.Self advise and that is in the if2 world, if you didn't miss the English grammar class, then you know what I am talking about.

Thoughts of You,

The feeling is fine, the feeling is real
I need you by my side to feel whole for keeps
You ignited and rejuvenated my feelings
I thought I would never feel like this because ninjaresses like me are rare speciesl
Getting the feels like he did took me donkey's years.But, He disappears.
I have quested, all over the world,sailed and reached the four corners,
No see. Thoughts of you baby are driving me insane.

The rubbing of the  bodies , lips dong what hands do brings that lost smile back
Every moment ,It would get  more and more fulfilling with this outrageous feel so incredible to resist,
Touching every curve and every part of me,the legs would apart automatically,misbehaving and begging
I miss you P but I don't know where to find you.Cant you feel the longings of my heart
screaming out for you. Yearning and calling out for you everyday. I want you and
only you in my entirety. This feel is real and genuine in a shape of a diamond.
And the heart such a statement is driven home best.

Sweetheart come take my heart ,hold my hand ,touch my body,look me in the eye
You don't have to say a word. I read hearts through eyes. I write stories through eyes.
Hurry up my love.Sweet love, With every single thought of you my erotic senses rise.
My temps rise, you get me twisting,soaking wet,body shivers. Can't explain the disease.
The only cure to this disease,is P. I want you so bad. Lets get down and sort the situation.

Sweet love,come back, don't disappear on your love. 


Friday, May 17, 2013

Corporate Chic

I am back with this little dress, I've been gravitating towards these days! This is a look I pulled  for work on Tuesday-14 May,2013! Hope you enjoy :-) You do not have to spend a fortune to be stylish! Though at times throwing in some extra bucks can get  you something really extra ordinary. The hair is a little bit ram shackled. I just wanted some shots.The sky was ashen with an unusually weak sun-just like  the the dull weather that was trying to play some camera tricks with the pictures thus the natural dark turn. Bare with the grainy look.

Simple corporate look . Rolling my style and feeling super great. I really like skimpy stuff but not to the extreme. The way I feel in them , only I can tell.

Thank you for dropping by.