Lets Suck and Unsuck Life

What are the best habits in the night?

1. Me and my partner have an early dinner and go for a 20 min walk as the recent study says eating a late dinner can cause weight gain and high blood sugar levels.
2. We then watch our series for a while.
3. Then comes brushing and flossing the teeth.
4. I set my alarm and plan the next day's to do list
5. We switch our phones to silent mode and keep it away (not near pillow) as it zaps your brain with radio waves, thus causing tumors.
6. We have a heart to heart talk and feel the care and support. We then go to sleep by cuddling each other

Thats how I want my night routine to be but life sucks right. Let's see the reality

1. Constant arguments with my partner.
2. Eating unhealthy late dinner.
3. Too lazy to brush my teeth before bed. Forget about flossing.
4. Set an alarm.
5. My inner night owl activates by then - binge watching Netflix.
6. And we end up sleeping with screens.

#life@times

What are straight-up facts people won’t swallow?

Ok before you come attacking me from reading my answer, read the question.

read it

Really read it

now that you've read it. If you still don't understand what am I talking about is that this can go offensive to you so be prepared

I only have 2 facts that most majority of people won't swallow or feel offended by it, that is :

1. You don't matter at all, in a few years you will die, humanity will end, and the universe will keep going like it's a normal day until it also ends and there will only be nothing and darkness.
2. Looks do matter, how about I ask you this. Which one do you prefer.

This ?

Or this?

Or would you prefer this?

Or this?

I bet you all choose the first ones and that is because of human nature, we always prefer the better one, the ones that makes us feel safe and good.

That's all from me. Thank you for reading.

Images are from Google.

Love, R~

Selflessness

The most common mistake is choosing a taker instead of a giver.
A taker is someone who absorbs energy, favors, love, compliments, and attention from other people, but doesn’t return these gifts.

Givers take pleasure in giving of themselves to make others happy.

In high school, he dated a girl who was a taker. She was hilarious and fun a lot of the time, but she constantly wanted things and was always asking me to drive her here and there, or help her fix her car, or burn her a CD, help her move, help her study, and so on.
As a giver, he was happy to give and give and give. But eventually he noticed that, despite giving constantly to try to make her happy, she rarely returned such gestures. Eventually they broke up.

Shortly thereafter, he started dating another girl. Immediately he noticed that she was so much easier to be around. She also gave him the love, affection, words of affirmation, and quality time that he so desired.
But it wasn’t until a year and a half into their relationship that he realized exactly why the new girlfriend was so incredible.

She called him one day to ask for a pick up from the mechanic’s. Her car had broken down and she wasn’t able to fix it on her own, so she’d hobbled it into the auto shop and, after being told there would be a four hour wait, decided to call him and ask for a ride.
What he realized was that, after a year and a half of dating, this was the FIRST TIME she’d asked him to do ANYTHING for her (she might be a little extreme in her independence.

Don’t hold everyone to this standard).
They’ve now been together for eight years and married for five. Every day they have a great time because they spend their time giving to each other, working to solve each others’ needs.

So determine to be a giver and find a giver. By giving to each other, you’ll both be fulfilled through christ Jesus.